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Are Your Beliefs Spoiling Your Life?Article Summary: How Certain Beliefs Can Fuel Stress, Depression and Anxiety
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Copyright 2006 Christopher Green
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This pattern follows in most areas of our lives and here are three very powerful beliefs that can hurt you and spoil your quality of life. They are beliefs common to stress, anxiety and depression and they underpin these illnesses. Do you hold any or all of the following beliefs:
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Until next time.
Former anxiety sufferer Chris Green is the author of "Conquering Stress", the internationally acclaimed program which will help you to permanently conquer stress, depression and anxiety without taking powerful drugs. For a free mini course, please click here =>
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