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Youve been dating long enough to know her 30 minute get ready for bed routine and you have so many of her dirty clothes, extra toothbrushes and hair ties at your house that its time to pop the question. Youve learned, despite her little quirks, that she is the woman you want to spend the rest of your life with and its time to ask. First of all, congratulations!
Many men can be commitment phobes, so making this first step is monumental. You want to make sure that when you do ask, however, that it is a memorable and special moment in both of your lives. Youll be telling this story to your grandchildren, remember!
Recent studies have shown that 80 85 [link widoczny dla zalogowanych] of women were disappointed in the way they were proposed to. That may sound a bit daunting and suggests that there are some non appreciative women out there. With the right amount of preparation, planning and intuition, youll be just fine. Guys tend to agonize over exactly how to propose, and some websites suggest planning everything down to the very [link widoczny dla zalogowanych] last minute. Talk about nerve wracking! You should spend enough time preparing for your proposal, but a proposal will have varying degrees depending on how intricate your idea is. Make sure to take it seriously because your girlfriend will. Weve created some basic dos and donts when you do decide to take the plunge, and finally, some good proposal ideas based on common personality types.
Do your homework. Just like you did your homework on the engagement ring, youll need to consider what type of girl she is and make sure your proposal reflects that. If shes traditional and romantic, a crazy or loud proposal may make her reconsider her answer. If shes shy, a huge public [link widoczny dla zalogowanych] proposal may not [link widoczny dla zalogowanych] be the way to go. By taking the time to think about your future fiancé, youll demonstrate that you care about her on an intimate, personal level. Mushy? Yes, but women are bonkers for this kind of stuff.
You may also need to be creative in arenas such as the setting and the date. Perhaps consider asking on the day of your first date, a holiday that has special meaning to the two of you, or even New Years to start the year of right! Whatever location you select, make sure it holds some personal value.
Do make it a surprise. Women live for surprises. A proposal is exciting news [link widoczny dla zalogowanych] for everyone, but telling her best friend or your mother will almost guarantee a spoiled proposal. Try to stay calm and not let your nervousness give away your plans.
Dos, Donts and Proposal Ideas Contd
Do tell her why you want to marry her! Instead of stumbling through [link widoczny dla zalogowanych] those four [link widoczny dla zalogowanych] words, why not add a personal touch to your proposal? Tell her why you know shes the one for you, what it is about her that youre so in love with. It will only mean so much more.
Do Share the News. Even if your new fiancé is the gossip queen of the city, make sure you share the news with your circle of guy friends after all, they now owe you a few round of drinks [link widoczny dla zalogowanych] at the bar.
Now that you have a few things to keep in the back of your mind of what to do when you propose, make sure you heed the following donts to ensure [link widoczny dla zalogowanych] a smooth proposal.
Dont make it public. This is essentially the reverse of the do make it a surprise. If you must tell anyone, make sure they either physically cannot speak or are at least 1000 miles away from your girlfriend and live in a hobbit hole.
Dont hide the engagement ring in food. Please! Do.Not.Do.This. Sure, its all over the big screens, but the actors KNOW what is coming. Your girlfriend will not. Picture a huge ice cream sundae with a beautiful ring sinking into the whipped cream while your girlfriend unknowingly inhales it. Youll either be visiting the doctor or the dentist by the end of the night.
Dont make the proposal too complicated. The more that is involved, the better chance there is that something will go wrong.
If youre still having trouble creating a proposal idea of your own, here are some based on some common personality types.
For the Romantics:
1. Send her one rose per day for 11 consecutive days so that on the 12th day, shell be expecting the last rose to complete the dozen. Instead, show up with a dozen more roses, an engagement ring and ask her to marry you. Or, if you cant wait 12 days, send her one rose per hour for 11 consecutive hours and on the 12th hour, show up with a dozen roses, an engagement ring and a proposal ready.
2. Bring her back to the spot where you went on your first date. Tell her that ever since then, the relationship has grown so much and you hope that she feels the same way. Then ask her to marry you.
[link widoczny dla zalogowanych] 3. Propose to her on Christmas. Put the ring in a box and hang it like an ornament on the tree. After all the presents have been opened, tell her there is one more special gift for her. Direct her to the ornament, and get down on your knees to propose.
4. Book a room for the two of you at a fancy hotel. Decorate it with flower petals that lead to the bathtub. Give her a robe and ask her to look in her pocket. After she finds the ring, propose, then give her a relaxing massage in the tub.
5. Buy a piece of jewelry for her and engrave marry me on it and present it to her.
For some audio video help, check out this link to some good, bad and scary proposals:
Cosmopolitan.com/sex love/relationship advice/crazy wedding proposal videos. Guys, just please dont make it as unbearable as the last video on here.
For the Adventurers:
1. Arrange with a local adventure guide for a private hot air balloon ride for just the [link widoczny dla zalogowanych] two of you (and the pilot). Schedule the time so that it covers either sunrise or sunset. Some companies provide a full meal with a table setting and the works. Present the diamond in a box as the dessert at the end of [link widoczny dla zalogowanych] the meal.
2. Take her bungee jumping. When she gets to the top, reveal the letters Will you marry me? Jump for yes! at the bottom.
3. Plan for a trip to an aquarium with your girlfriend. Pre arrange a show in a large scuba tank and arrange a mock presentation of some sort. Bring along a scuba slate and write will you marry me and present it to her on the other side of the scuba tank.
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Do drop to one knee! Were not living in the 1950s, but its what every girl wants to happen!
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