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The social, economic and cultural factors that lead to black men being locked up for a long period of time and acknowledge that the difficulty that black women have in finding a romantic partner is a sad side effect of a set of depressing circumstances. It is basically a crap cocktail of institutionalized racism in the legal system as well as culturally enforced standards of beauty that idealizes European features. The suffering of pretty black girls and, by extension, the black American family, can be used as a starting point in a discussion about reforming law [link widoczny dla zalogowanych] enforcement and the American penal system, as well as cultural attitudes about beauty and attraction.

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But what about racism? Dating site surveys have revealed that many non-black men say they aren't interested in dating a pretty black woman. Even if a majority of white men are uninterested in dating black women, that still leaves more than enough eligible white men for every single black woman in America. Moreover, many major urban [link widoczny dla zalogowanych] areas have large numbers of Asian, Indian, Middle Eastern and Latino men, some of whom, according to at least one study of Internet dating, are more responsive to beautiful black women than are black men.

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If pretty black women decided to respond to a limited dating pool by dating outside of their race more often, more of them might get married. But in the real world, there's little likelihood that this could be implemented in a practical way. This isn't economic policy; love isn't a logical decision; if you told me that men with blue eyes were much less likely to produce offspring who get cancer than men with brown eyes, I wouldn't be able to logic my way out of preferring the latter. A short girl who loves dating tall men won't suddenly like short guys because someone tells her that the physics of sex with a man close to your height can make the act more fun for all involved parties.

Also, it's like asking [link widoczny dla zalogowanych] someone to think her way into falling in love with some rich guy she works with because he would be a better provider. The heart wants what it wants. Suggesting that pretty black women react to their smaller dating pool by simply changing their tastes and abandoning the hope that they'd be able to raise a family with [link widoczny dla zalogowanych] someone from a similar cultural background is borderline absurd.
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