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Words To Live By For The Recovering Rageaholic
By Newton Hightower, LMSW-ACP
A rager, or rageaholic, is a person who is addicted to the
expression of anger. While many people feel better when
they "let it all out" a rageaholic should totally and
completely abstain from expressing their anger.
If anger or rage is a problem for you or someone you love,
the following creed will help get things moving in a more
positive direction. Read this list each morning before
beginning your day:
1. I will practice self-restraint as a *top* priority
today.
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3. If I feel that my anger is about to erupt, I will
*quietly* leave the situation.
(Notice that it does not say, "I will stay around and
process my feeling.")
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me today, especially from my partner.
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way, when I am criticized.
(Notice that it does not say, "I will say, 'You are right,
but...'")
6. I will give an example of how the person who criticized
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right, I am dangerous."
(Notice that it does not say, "I need to stand up for
myself when I am right." That is in the self-help
literature for depressed women. Rageful men are not
depressed women.)
8. I will avoid explaining myself in any way by saying, "I
have no idea why I did that...it doesn't make any sense to
me either."
(Notice that it does not say, "I will make sure she
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being understood.
9. I will listen sympathetically to my partner when she
tells me about her day.
(That means maintaining eye contact and turning the
television off...not just on mute.)
10. I will not give unsolicited advice to my wife or
children.
(That also means not asking questions such as, "Do you know
what you should do?" or "Do you want to know why that
happened?")
11. I will avoid blaming family members for anything today,
especially if it was their fault.
(Instead, say things such as, "It's not your fault you ran
out of gas. That stupid gas gauge shows there is gas when
there isn't!")
12. I will avoid trying to make any family
member "understand" anything.
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13. I will avoid trying to convince my child or spouse that
I am being fair.
(Enjoy the relief of *not* trying to convince your teenager
that you are being fair, and just sympathize with them for
having an unfair parent that wants to ruin their lives.)
14. I will look for an opportunity to sincerely praise
everyone I live with, especially the cat I don't like.
(Yes, every day! Pet the cat and say nice things to it. The
children and your wife will know that you have
changed...insist that you have come to have warm feelings
toward the cat.)
15. I will humbly commit myself to removing my angry
behaviors today, as my contribution toward a more peaceful
world.
(Realize that there is enough anger and grief in the world
without you adding to it.)
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